My wife and I have been separated for 3 months now. I kicked her out when I found out she had been abusing cold mediciene and that she was possibly losing her career. Bad move but it happened. She began to text her boss the day after she left home. I confronted them about it and she denied and got really upset that I would accuse them.
The first couple months of our seperation I felt she was distant from our 18 month old son and she would always work later and later. I fought a lot with her over this because all I could think is she is with this guy.
The last month of our seperation I toned it down and focused on building a positive relationship with her. On the weekends she began to stay all day with my son and we would hang out all day. We went to aquariums together dinner all the things a family does together. At night my son would go to sleep and she began to stay all night watching movies then would sleep on the couch. I felt we were reconnecting. A few days ago I came across text between her and her boss and after confrontimg her she admitted they had been seeing each other and sleeping together since a month after she left. I was obviously upset and she kept wanting to talk bc she felt bad and didn't want to hurt me. We talked but it seems like she likes this guy and thinks they have a future later on. When her life is not so complicated. She works with him everyday also.
I just want guidance. It seemed when I started self improving, communicating, and not pressuring her about anything we began to bond again and enjoy our time both with and without our son. But her actions tell me that she moved on.
Is it time for me to cut this off once and for all? Is it too late to save my family?
