In the UK - need help (pt15)

[Huddy]

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2613799&page=11

Old thread - new holding page!

[Huddy]

Told W about the flat. She seemed a little 'bunny eyed' about it and then asked how I'd paid the deposit and would I be moving out now. I told her it didn't work like that. She then did that classic WW/WAW 'rolling eye' movement and said 'that's how other people make it work'. Well, not quite. She then gave me a long hard stare before I said 'well, I'm not going to make myself homeless', to which I got no reply.

I went back to the kitchen and started to cook my pasta. My S came for me and I went in to the living room to find my W staring hard at the floor, chewing her nails.

I feel a bit numb to be honest. I kinda expected some kind of reaction (I suppose I got one of sorts) but I don't think she has reached the bottom yet.

Anyway, final credit checks on me to be completed tomorrow and then I sign the lease and that's one worry off my mind!

[rd500]

Huddy is doing what any right thinking person and parent would do in this sitch it' stinks it's come to this but you can only play the hand your dealt

For me. You've acted in a strong , confident manner and let your actions do the talking

Stay strong mate. W has to put on her big girl pants now and sort out her own sh@t

Take care. Rd

[Huddy]

Thanks RD. She's just told my SD that she thinks it's a 'good thing'. It's a good job I know the 0/50 rule.

[Vanilla]

Congrats on the flat.

V

[Huddy]

Thanks V.

[Sotto]

Pleased for you Huddy. Try not to worry about what your W says and thinks - just focus on getting you and yours settled and sorted my friend.

Take care xx

[NDY]

X10 on rd and Sotto's comments. X50 on v's comments.

You look after yourself and your kids mate and I'll do the same. Then let things fall the way they will. It'll work out in the end.

[Huddy]

Thanks. Just felt a bit weird last night. I guess I have dropped the rope!

[NDY]

Thanks. Just felt a bit weird last night. I guess I have dropped the rope!

I know what you mean mate. I've just read the interim separation agreement with my Ex's maiden name on it. Not a blip from me.