That's essentially where I'm at right now. The next conversation is going to be me telling her that I CANNOT have just a platonic relationship. She might think that's all we had in the past...but that REALLY is what we have now. And I can't "just be friends" because that doesn't work for me.

Her response to anything I say for the past two months has been this: I just need some time to stop being so angry. I think being apart for a few years would help me forget. And then maybe we'll get back together.

I don't believe that's a solution to the problem. And when she asks me about where our wedding picture is or comes over without prompting I know there's something there. She just had to find it without me forcing things....just like she tried to force things on me. Won't work for either of us...


"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu