Yes, I think it is prudent to just ask your SIL for her advice. Michele's advice is to reveal the A to those who are pro-marriage and who will not stand in your way of reconciliation. Your SIL would probably be in a better position to advise you on your next step.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
