Hi Sotto,
I'm sorry you are in this place right now. Hang in there. I think the children who grow up to be most negatively impacted are the ones who don't have anyone caring about them. As hard as it is for you to stay connected, I hope you can do so. I think it will be a great benefit to SS to realize that while a marriage may not have lasted, his relationship w you is still intact. You're such a great person, Sotto ... you have much to offer SS and the rest of the world. Honor your feelings, grieve, vent, do whatever you can to feel it and move it out of your body ... we are all here for you xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver