So if you can't just accept the fact that my problem was that I was lying to my wife. That's all anyone needs to know. I am protecting my wife by not going into detail. So if you have any constructive to say, fine. If you insist on continuing to ask. Then I would rather you say nothing. Again I will say. According to my wife. I broke her trust. I acknowledge that things were my fault and have worked on my issues. Thank You