I'll second that. My friend has been pushing hard her L to get her divorce done. She is now divorced and all of our conversations are based on either about what her H does/ did or why I'm not filing for D.
She has a lot of anger in her and I'm wondering if she still does love him but because society expects us to behave a certain way when we have been betrayed, that's why she divorced him so quick (20 months after he walked out on his family)!
