LL...thanks again for the good advice.

I've read by DR and TSSM.

It's kinda funny. WAW said she doesn't think sex therapy, books, etc. will help her to feel any better about not wanting to ML. Flies in the face of the "Just Do It" approach of TSSM.

WAW still believe that "time heals all wounds" which is true, but only to a certain extent. If you hurt/damage a muscle, doing nothing makes it atrophy. You need to little by little work on the damaged part until it gets back to full strength.

I told her that I wouldn't pressure her on the ML thing. That I know and respect how she feel right now. That I will wait for the sign from her, and she said that was OK but no guarantees.


"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu