- She came over at 4:30am without me prompting her. - She came over for dinner and asked what I did with our wedding picture that was up in the living room. - She slept over the following night without prompting. - She came over for dinner again on Sat night but didn't sleep over, and I didn't pressure her to either way.
When I did push things a little bit about the impending D I pointed out that she's actually never said "I want a divorce" to me. She's made me say that's what she wants based on our situation. Anyhow, I told her to tell me "I want a divorce" because I've yet to hear it, and she totally changed the subject.
I know I probably pushed the D thing too much, but the fact that she didn't/couldn't say it meant something.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu