Ancaire, when T Rex went crashing through the woods the little mammals hid in their underground dens. They survived and T Rex became extinct.
Try to avoid long, detailed conversations with your husband. "I don't know", "I have talk with my lawyer about that" or "I don't feel well, can we talk later" may help stall. Try going for a walk if you know he's coming by. Get your car fixed' get your ducks in a row and create your own life.
Be careful Ancaire, a cornered scared animal bites.