Sounds like a plan. The idea of a goal is so its achieve able. Maybe not today or tomorrow but something to aim for that will be possible

R goals are difficult because you are relying on someone else to act a certain way for the goal to be made. Again no expert but perhaps relax from R goals other than ones possible to achieve by yourself , for yourself

Roller coaster it is and we can't get off without the ride coming to a stop

Tighten that belt and hold on

Rd