You are right rd, thank you for grounding me again.
I've just re-read the MLC section of the DR book and it in essence says patience is king, patience is everything. Let her be to do what she is doing and she might wake up.
Work on myself, that I have been and am continuing to do so, and reality may one day appear for her and even then it's going to be a long journey.
I think I am back to where I was recently, allow the D to happen (she's pushing hard through the L to make it so) and when I'm ready for a new R, my W may have woken up, if not there's a woman who is going to be very happy, but doesn't know it yet. Either way, I am going to be a happy man, I just don't know when or with who yet.
MWD also said it's a roller coaster ride and she really was right, am doing the straps up a little bit tighter right now.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?