Yes a fresh wound indeed, it feels as though it heals then it opens up again.
Yes I agree they are crippled with serious issues. Unfortunately it takes a long time for them to realize they have problems and some never do.
As of right now, I am in NC with W. I don't feel the need to contact W anymore like I used to. I am still in shock, hurt. but at peace finally knowing I was not the issue like W had originally told me a D bomb.
Thank you for the best wishes, I too wish you luck with your sitch.