Last night W brought up the conversation that happened the other night in front of S8 (see above). It was my chance to introduce my boundary. It went something like this:
Me: You chose to turn your back on our MR. W: Yah (sarcastic tone). Me: You chose to be in an A. W: Yah (sarcastic tone). Me: You choose to continue to be in an A. W: Ok (sarcastic tone). Me: It is better for both of us if you move your things back into the other bedroom (making reference to the spare bedroom where she sleeps). W: You think so? (sarcastic tone) Is this a threat? Me: No, just stating the facts. W: You should move your things out of MBR. Me: No, I did not chose to turn away from the MR and have an A. W: Well, that space is too small (making reference to spare bathroom that she was sharing with kids). Me: Again, please move your things out of the MBR. W: We'll see about that!
I know she will not move her things and I will need to move them out of the MBR myself.
