Quote: The final straw was her moving out. It actually allowed me to break the continual cycle of confrontation...fixing things for her, not me...and then going back to the old ways. Now that I have my self-confidence back I am very HD but she's now LD.
as noted above by my pissy little post (please don't take it as aimed at you personally) my h is ld or rather as he likes to call it "fluctuating libido", the issue caused other issues in our r, as you are no doubt aware of due to your own sit. H eventually had an ea with another woman causing even more friction wich then led to his leaving and wanting a d. He did come home when he realized he didn't really want to leave and when he came home he was totally HD and claimed "maybe this is the way I'll be from now on, it's what you always wanted anyway right" well as you can guess from my pissy tone...he hasn't stayed that way at all. So I question the fact that anyone can actually change.
