Here's My Story...Need Guidance

[wiseman]

That's one of the most frustrating aspects of this entire situation I am in angel r. I wish I had vested more into my personal growth so that I had other areas to focus my attention on.

I have since GAL (get a life) and began some hobbies, but I am seeing a common trend among us on these forums. Why did we all become dependent on the relationship? I personally think this is a big part of why we all ended up here. I think the hobbies, friends...LIFE ENERGY is what keeps people around. If that's not there the flame starts to die and the other person starts to loose interest and question why they are even here anymore. Just my 2 cents.