Quote: While LD I did masterbate, had sexual thoughts, etc but I didn't just act on them.
if you masterbated then you acted on the sexual thoughts you were having you just didn't include w.
as a hd female with a ld h that really pisses me off. If I were to find that my h were masterbating while I'm sitting here volunteering to do it for him and being rejected I'd be bullsh!t. oh wait I already am bullsh!t at the fact that I have to take care of myself so grrrr.
in any case I'm glad you've made the changes and hope that w accepts them. Know that the road isn't going to be a smooth one though, many years of resentment to get through and that's no easy feet. (or feat)
