Here's My Story...Need Guidance

[wiseman]

Afternoon everybody. Just wanted to stop in and provide a few updates.

Things have been going as well as they can. And with that I mean, we are still having minimal dialogue and going about our lives individually.

We set up some time to meet last Friday to discuss details of the divorce. Specifically with the kids. We came to an agreement to have 50/50 custody and already worked out a holiday schedule. My W is still living in the house, but with the holidays approaching she felt we needed to determine who the kids would be with on each day and what side of the family they would see.

On Saturday I took the kids to a local apple farm that had a corn maze and some other great activities. The wife checked in a few times during the day via text to ask how the kids were and to see if they were having a good time. I responded and kept the responses brief.

On Sunday she took the kids to a pumpkin patch to pick out pumpkins to carve. I did the same thing she did the previous day and asked if the kids had fun. She responded and sent a bunch of pictures of the day.

We still have our alternating schedule in place for when each of us can go out. This helps avoid arguments and reduce unnecessary tension. I've been able to finally start accepting her evenings out and completely avoid thinking about what she is doing or who she is with. I still have my moments, but most of my energy has been focused on improving me and controlling what I can control.

I have some questions and need a little guidance as well. I will post in below.