I feel you bobby. My wife wants nothing to do with this relationship , she just wants out and period. How can you treat someone you once loved like that? A disposable object with no feelings and throw it to the trash , and just clean your hands. I am in the same boat. I am fighting until the end , until we sign the divorce. I am working on myself, i have accepted my flaws even though she wont accept hers. But there is so much i can do.