Hey, DBR. I am HD female with a ND H. H is about as negative as you can get. I think I'm right but I might be wrong, I think the lady has a control problem. Every time she sees you being different from before she panics and pushes you away. Note, I might be wrong about this and even if I am right it is not time to turn into THE ADVENGER. My H would never cooperate with me, I just have to look for the well hidden baby steps and keep hope alive. For some reason it seems to me your W may have that same problem with control. By the way I hope I am wrong about the lady's problem and I hope you get your M pieced back together.
