so i guess im not a victim? -she physically abused me, twice. I have pictures. She blamed me for it because im stupid.
-she verbally abused me, names "selfish,worthless, good for nothing, not a good provider, bad husband , bad father, cant ever do anything right, PATHETIC.
- she psychologically abused me , making me believe every situation i was wrong and at fault, in the 5 yrs we were together she never once said sorry about anything. She forced me to get a second job on the weekend to meet her needs.
- she emotionally cheated on me , 3 times. She messaged her ex boyfriend that lives in Mx , to tell him she still loves him and missed him. and lied in my face. She blamed me for it too, because i made her do it. Because i give her no choice but to do it.
I wasnt emotionally there because i was always working for her, her house, her embroidery machine , her financial needs, I would get home tired, last thing i want is to talk on how she is feeling. Yes she is the victim here.
