I think so. It sounds to me like she has some really deep-down bitterness and anger to work through, and there's no short-cut to getting through that stuff. If you've read my threads and posts, you've probably picked up on a similar emotion in me. I bet there are also major trust issues. I think at this moment, even if W were to suddenly become "miss sexy", I would have a GREAT deal of trouble trusting that this is really HER, because she's done bad 180's on me in the past. After so many years of ND, how could I take her word that she was suddenly HD? It would stink of deception. And if she truly WAS now HD, what was all that ND crap about?
Trust, bitterness and anger would possibly keep me from being able to open up, and I could even see how I might go from HD to LD - not really Low Desire, but less willingness to put myself in a position to be hurt, yet again.
