No need to apologize for hijacking--all of this info is useful for all of us in this sitch. Keep it coming.

Julie H--maybe we should try to get together for mojitos! ETA tried sending you a PM but I guess you can't from this site.

V. You are a wealth of information and inspiration. I am going to read up on the devaluation cycle today.

Thank you--all of you--for you support, insight, and for being open about your own sitches. Because it really is easier to spot the red flags in someone else's story--sometimes that is what it takes to open our eyes to our own.

Last edited by mustardseed; 10/27/15 02:22 PM.
40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17