in house seperation (3)

[vise82]

Hey,

It was a ok night, W worked late, I fed the kids and when my W came home we all watched some Halloween movies together, I put the kids to bed, fixed my kids toy with the glue W asked for me to bring home. ( It was my S who asked my W to ask me to get the glue). We talked about logistics, and said a few other random stuff about my work. NO fighting. No R talks.

Then I went to the basement to watch TV, W was upstairs and she had the gate open, usually its closed so I would have to open a gate to get to the room she was in. Non verbal communication leaving it open?

She was up and down stairs before I left for work, I mentioned I was going to apply for a line of credit, there is an old CC that is in my name that my W has stopped making payments on and is in collections for a year and a half. It was almost past the statute of limitation and the she made a payment on it randomly.

Now its like its new debt and has to be paid off. I don't want this to ruin my credit so hopefully I get approved for the line of credit. This is something I should have taken care of a long time ago but my W was paying all the bills and she decided which bill got paid and what didn't back then when only one of us was working. This is also a 180 for me.