HD WAW now LD

[DBrookie]

Thanks all for the good advice and very good points.

I've been spending a lot of our time being separted working on myself. See my own counselor, working out (dropped 30 pounds), going out and having fun, etc.

I know that she's noticed these things because she frequently comments that I look good, smell good, have lost weight, etc. I also give back the same compliments and when we do spend time together I will rub her back, neck, feet, etc to make her feel better. She's on her feet all day at work.

I have been following the tips in TSSM and DR. A few weeks ago she called me in the middle of the night (2:30am) to come over to her place because she was feeling sick. That same day also happend to be our wedding anniversary.

In the morning I figured it was a good time to make a move, and she said that I was pressuring her. Later in the day she said that she still can't not think of all the LD times from the past when I'm putting the moves on her.

I guess I just need to keep doing my thing, keep showing the interest, but not to push things. Let her be the one that decides when she's ready???