How often do we snoop and sneak hoping to find crap to prove something negative and blow up in their face about it only to walk away thinking ... maybe next time when we dont.
Your issues are not with the OM it is with yourself and your wife. He is merely a prop in this play.
You asked this a few months ago and I did not answer, sorry.
Originally Posted By: Maximus
I would like to know in what situation do you then think I am really in.
I think your wife is depressed and whether their is an OM or not is really not relevant. Even if she is involved with him it is unlikely anything more than cake eating, looking for happiness, in the wrong places.
