Mr Bond you keep asking for specifics. The specific is that I continued to lie to her about one thing over a period of months. I can't get into specifics anymore than that. The thing is I broke her trust. And she said she couldn't trust me anymore. So we went to court and settled the debt. With me occurring 90% of it. Even though it was both ours and that she makes 4 times as much money. I just wanted to show thru my actions that I was willing to give. So as for wanting to save the relationship. There really is no relationship. She wants nothing to do with me. She says she gets anxious around me anytime I bring things up. I asked her if she thought the settlement was fair? And she couldn't answer yes to that. She gets anxious anytime I try to talk about the past. Her answer is to just cut and run.