Agree with Bond. You're looking for signs of a turnaround that I don't think is there. Just relax, and take one step at a time. Listen to her. Figure out how to work out an arrangement to spend time with your kids. It's all speculation until you hear what she has to say.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.