"I wouldn't say I am being negative. More like realistic. I'm all for happy endings, and encourage everyone to keep trying as long as they can. But the statistical reality is that MOST marriages that end up in this kind of shape are most likely over, my own included."
Sorry but it sounds pretty negative to me. Hard to help others when you have the preconceived idea that more than likely their M will fail.
OK Bond, let's just agree to disagree. This is my thread and I'll gladly post my own opinions. If you don't agree, that's fine but please refrain from further discussion on this topic in my thread. I will not be replying to it again.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.