I'll ask L if it works the same here. In my state, you can be divorced against your will if you ignore proceedings. Guess that's what I just went into debt borrowing money to pay L for, huh? So she can do what needs doing.
Thanks so much, all of you. I'm starting to worry about how sad I am. Although, wouldn't one expect this to be normal? I'm grieving for several things all at once; loss of marriage, loss of family, loss of the H I believed existed. How many days straight have others cried? Don't know if I should be concerned or not.
