Need advice for a WW who left Part 4

[dwh15]

Was it mentioned that you're not allowed to participate? Of course not.

I was just wondering that since you have a negative view on how M's turn out here, why are you on a M saving website? I can tell you that even after a D, people have come back on here to say that they've reconciled.

That's up to you.

I wouldn't say I am being negative. More like realistic. I'm all for happy endings, and encourage everyone to keep trying as long as they can. But the statistical reality is that MOST marriages that end up in this kind of shape are most likely over, my own included.

That doesn't mean I don't hope for a miracle in my own case, or in others. I'm here because I've been around for months, have gotten a ton of great advice, and now I'm to the point I enjoy giving back to new members on the site.

Yes, there are a few who are able to R after D. It's fantastic when it happens, and an inspiration to us all. I just don't think it's healthy to give new people the wrong impression. Odds are long and it's a long, uphill battle. I've mostly given up the ghost in my case, but plan on sticking around because I enjoy the site, and love hearing about people who are able to pull the proverbial needle out of the haystack.