otw I've asked my coach about instances where there isn't much communication or interactions to DB. Basically he said not to worry about it that much because it generally works out to the interactions happening one way or another. You have kids together so there will always be some connection there. For now you might just need to give her space and let her work on her own issues for a while. The opportunities will come up as they do, no reason to rush them. Patience is a huge thing to deal with while we go through this.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
