"It's admirable that everyone on this board is working to save their M, but unfortunately, the sad reality is that few will succeed. Of the ones who try to reconcile, a good portion of those will still go on to eventually fail."
So if this is what you believe, why are you here?
You can either take the perspective that your M is going to be one of those that fails or one of the ones that succeeds.
I'm 99% convinced my M is over. Does that mean I'm not allowed to participate? Didn't realize that was a requirement for being on DB forums.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.