"How do you past the betrayal of being cheated on?"
By making the decision to not let it define you.
"I am really struggling. I have triggers and flash backs and I become angry all over again. My therapist says this is normal."
It is.
"But it really bothers my husband when it happens. He would rather us just "move on". "
Okay, so what do you want him to do to not let it bother you? Would you rather he be stoned or you be allowed to beat him, or tell all your family and friends what a pathetic loser he is, etc.? What would make you feel better?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.