I suppose I fall into the "nice guy" category which leaves me to be poo'ed on. Being the "nice guy" I had no boundaries but need to define them quickly.
I will share with WW that she chose to turn away from the MR and chooses to be with OM therefore she needs to move her things back to other room (remove her things from MBR). Internally I will give her 2 days if not, I will move her stuff myself.
I will no longer support her financially. Therefore W and I should spit household living 50/50 or 60/40.. something like that. However this ones tricky.. how to separate financial responsibilities (credit cards, bank accounts, etc.. everything is joint)?
I thought sharing boundaries was related to the A and thought LBH should not bring up R unless WW wants to discuss.. I have so much to work on to understand relationships in general.
