Hey sandi,

I read a text that her friend is asking my W to look after her dog at our house. My W will be away that weekend because of a wedding. That leaves me to look after the dog. I haven't been asked yet. but I know now to say no, she is not my friend.

When she is at the above wedding I think this will be a good turning point. It could go either way, but if she has the opportunity to cheat and doesn't that could be good for me.

The talk of the best man was of texts between her best friend (bride) and my W. All that was said was that the best man was worried what he was wearing because my wife was coming out to meet them. My wife laughed it off and said for him not to be worried she looks tired right now. Then she manages to wear some really nice clothes to go out. I know how it goes with the wedding party ( W is maid of honour and the other guy is best man, they get to walk down together and spend all this time together with them dressed up looking there best and alcohol.

Anyway I want to stop thinking about it. Its nothing I can control, its my W decision to cheat or not. She thinks she is single right now by taking off her rings, but who knows what she is truly thinking.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016