I would recommend not asking at this point. This is where I struggled too. I would see one little positive sign and want to hit the gas pedal and floor it to 100mph.
Slow down a little. You don't want to be too available. You aren't going to ruin anything by slowing down. BUT, you can make her lose interest by rushing.
So you went and had a good time together, let her think about it while she's away from you and want more! Create a little challenge and mystery with her. That will generate a spark! And sparks are good!
I remember early on during my reconciliation my fiancé asked me to go on a lunch date (I WAS SOOOO EXCITED!). I'd been through hell and things were looking good! I decided to tell her I was busy and that we would have to get together another time. That was so hard to do! But guess what happened, she started to chase me a little bit.
Slow down. Don't blow it now. Keep doing what's working, dday (this goes for you too E).
