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If I text her, I get an immediate response 90% of the time. She wants to do "family type stuff" together. Has followed me when I have walked away, to keep talking. Has told me about her plans. Hasn't told the kids that she wants this to be permanent... etc.


I know that this will probably go against the grain, but to me those are all positive signs. Maybe what you are doing is working?? I mean, if she is following you to keep talking, how can that be anything but positive?

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So I see things, but she has not came out and said anything. We haven't done anything that is just the two of us either.


Let me ask you this, would it be so bad to ask her out to dinner? Whats the worst that could happen? Not saying that you have to have any relationship talk or the like, but maybe that is the bridge she is looking for?

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Trying to have no expectations is tough with my hopes.


Same boat! I got my hopes all sorts of up when the W asked if we could go out Saturday night. When she called me today, towards the end of the conversation I said I had a good time and she said "yeah, it was nice." Very cryptic but I said nothing else about it. I really want to ask her out for a "date" but I am unsure...

Last edited by Evil_E; 10/26/15 07:38 PM.

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