"I stopped because she started having an A and refused to stop contact with him."

Why?

"She told me she never checked on where I was going, she wasn't checking my emails and I could have been doing anything I wanted. She didn't know if she could trust me because she wasn't checking. She said my check in text messages were annoying."

You don't have to make them seem like you're checking in. And besides, her recent texts to you prove the opposite of what she told you. I thought you read DB? Remember the believe none of what they say and half of what they do rule?

"I also saw it as pursuing someone who no longer was honoring our M.

Do you think I should have kept doing these things even though she had left our M?"

Why not? She did it to you when you weren't honoring your M.

Funny how now that she's going after someone who she feels respects her after you didn't, that you feel that SHE is wrong and are trying to punish her for it.

Just goes to show how badly your A hurt her.

So you have a choice. Show that you can be trusted (doesn't have to be checking in) by doing things that show you are trustworthy or continue to look down on her even though you did it to her.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER