Thanks man. I'm really in a good place at this point. Got a good friend and attorney who is helping me navigate the legal side of things. Been going to IC to have someone objective to talk to and help me work on my feelings about it and how I handle things with others. Family's been supportive. Been able to be here for the kids and we've gotten a little closer as a result so that's been nice too.

Really didn't want this at all, but have accepted it and am moving forward one day at a time. Already getting to where I feel like making some holiday plans, reconnecting with friends, etc.

Really aside from this, most everything else in my life is pretty darn good right now so that is helping.

Good, positive, loving choices = Good, positive, loving results most of the time, and peace at the very least.