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W has a friend that needs her dog looked after for the weekend. she hasn't asked yet but has hinted. I think I am going to say no, then I am sure I will get the anger treatment.


You mean she has to go stay at the friend's house, in order to pet sit? How far away does the friend live? Is it a house dog?

Why are you going to say, "no"?

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Thoughts keep popping in my head about the wedding she is going to, I am trying to convince my self this might be a turning point for my W.


Which way do you mean this? A turning point in the right direction or the wrong?

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As temptation will be there as she will be gone for two nights and there has already talk about the best man being interested in her. This is a choice she will have to make to be faithful or not.


Okay, so are you talking about two separate weekends? One for the friend's pet, and another one for the wedding? Has she started finding things to be away for the weekends more than she is normally gone?

Is this talk about the best man being interested in her, rumored in the family or a small group? Does she know? Was she the one who told you?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!