Re: LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (3)

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Did you read DB or DR?

I'm most of the way through the DB book. I've also hired a coach who I've had 2 sessions with.

Since you cheated on her, trust is the biggest problem for her. And with you running off and doing whatever you want, you've shown that you can't be trusted.

Very true. I'll be more responsible with this.

In what ways have you tried to rebuild trust with her?

I started with books "Winning your wife back before it's too late", "Worthy of her trust", "Defiled", etc....
I began telling her everywhere I went. when I arrived at work, when I left work, where I was going, who I was with full reports all day long. Checking in on a regular basis. I continually reassured her. I gave her full access to my email, back accounts, phone...everything. I did this for 10+ months which isn't a very long time but it was until about a month after her first A. Then I stopped.