She wouldnt ever have a A as her first priority were the boys and an A would push me away from them
Sorry mate. I don't know your W but ^^^ that statement is bollox. My Ex said almost those words to me. Now look where I am. The 0/50 rule applies with EVERYTHING she said, good or bad.
Sorry buddy but the phone is a red flag.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.