No, I don't mean lying about the ring. Yeah, It's off. She's sending you a message - 'right now, I don't want to be with you'. She's only been doing it for the last eight weeks?
OK, following is not a good move, but I know why you've done it. The idea about not snooping is because if you find something you don't like, you'll get hurt. Yes, you need intel, but there has got to be other ways.
What I mean about lying is the words coming out of her mouth. She'd tell you the moon was made of cream cheese if it suited her purposes. She'll tell you anything to keep you off the scent of what she's got in mind. This is where you detach. It's tough, really tough, but you've got to act as if you don't really care what you're W does, you need to look after number one.
The R talks don't help. All that is doing is pushing her further away. She's asking your opinion because she wants you to agree to her wayward plan and make it easy for her to trample all over you. In order to supress what's going on, your W will need to feel loss. That's not going to happen whilst you are busy running around after her, doing anything she wants, but nothing you want. She's got you by the balls, with a broom up your arse - is that what you want?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
