have i been making mistakes too long part 7

[ATPeace]

Sometimes it is easier to see things when you look at them from an outside view

My W said the same thing ...go out date I think you should i want you to be happy

I started texting a lady that I had met I am not ready to give up on my marriage so I have cooled things with the lady that I am chatting to still will talk but not to the same level ...I am not going to move anything forward with her till I am sure i want to move on with W

As to the other man bringing up children I have felt this too and it is a normal reaction ...I have been told so many times keep it in the present it has not happend yet ...when it happens and if then we deal with it

One thing that I am trying to do is to start to evaluate things for what they are rather than reacting emotionally I find this helps me to keep my emotions in check

Take care

Ghost