having the talk with the kids was one of the hardest things i ever did. My w didnt shed one tear though. I look back at things and wished we told them sooner. Thye are not dumb and can see more than we do as well.

I have felt a little better since talking to them. The worrying about them nonstop has eased up as i now know their reactions and can deal with it head on. Yes it is terrible either way, but i think maybe it is time.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15