Thanks guys. It is much better for me to bounce ideas around then to just act.
Azzork,
Yes I agree I am a bit impatient. But when it would not be impatient anymore?
The contact would be simple. Just a text message saying, "hey how's it going". That's it. The response would be binary. She ignores it (which is not unlikely) in which case that wouldn't really bother me. Been there, done that... fine. Then I go back to status quo. But I would be concerned in undoing any 'progress' I made. Or she responds in which case I would keep things short and sweet... no relationship talk, no questions, no date suggestions, certainly no I love yous.
Flight, I agree with what you are saying. Problem here is having been through this before with her, she actually has gone a long time without contacting me and then she does. In this case there has to be contact at some point so it is a little different. Before we actually could have never talked again.
