He has not filed for D. You seem to believe that is the only indicator to start applying LRT. That is where my confusion lies! My point is that this contradicts the guidelines in the book. Feyth's is physically seperated from her H and they have very little interaction. According to the book this is enough reason to start applying LRT. I thought I had read that he had indicated he wanted to D, but I don't see that now. Regardless, they way her H is acting would qualify for her to apply LRT according to DR.
I am only trying to clarify as a good majority of people on this site are in situations that according to the book should immediately start LRT. I think that is why you see so many people on here applying LRT. They are simply following the advice in the book. I followed LRT straight away even though my H had not filed. He had indicated he was serious about D, he moved into sparebedroom and we had little interaction.
Again, LRT is a major component of DR/DB so it seems important to clear this up. Am I correct in understanding that you only believe LRT should be applied if D has been filed?
Maybe someone else sees the issue here??
Sorry for the hijack, Feyth, but this seems important for you!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015