Thanks ep. It's admirable that everyone on this board is working to save their M, but unfortunately, the sad reality is that few will succeed. Of the ones who try to reconcile, a good portion of those will still go on to eventually fail. I think that by the time people come seeking the kind of advice found here, in most cases, it is far too late and too much damage has been done.
But there are a few success stories, and I think everyone benefits from the DB techniques, in that they improve themselves. We also learn so much about relationships that it hopefully helps us to never repeat the same mistakes and end up back here again in a few years. This is an experience that I certainly do not wish to repeat.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.