I am willing to do it right. Not her way. Also this is my only opportunity to express my concerns that she is abusing my daughter physiologically, because when ever i would tell her , she would just tell me to $%$ off. I dont want my daughter to fall in the same cycle as her. I dont want my daughter to be a bully in middle school just like her mom was. I dont want my daughter to beat her husband when she gets married, who knows that husband might fight back and not be a weakling like me.